BELIEVE IT OR...NOT!!!

Hi Ladies! I have been battling a bad headache for a few days and have been watching lots of wedding shows on the Style Network. Let me just say- I HOPE YOU DON'T BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU SEE ON TV!! The show "20 Wedding do's and Don't's" ...What?! Some of the things they talk about are SO not reality! Where do they get some of their ideas?! And, "The Modern Girl's Guide to Life"- it's nice they have given 4 out of work actresses something to do, but let's get serious! Of course, there is always "Who's Wedding Is It Anyway"! I have never seen such nonsense. Yes- you can get married on $10,000, but you have to re-think and really scale down your wedding dreams- or get married somewhere in the midwest! If you are getting married in a city on either coast, it can't be done for 200 people in a beautiful venue. And, those planners don't want to plan your $10,000 wedding if it isn't on TV! Girls- TV isn't the real world- even if it says "reality TV". Get help, have a planner at some level- no matter your budget and be honest with yourself and your planner. And remember- it is about the marriage, not the party. Even a small party can be a fabulous memory! Have a good day!

A BEACHY THEME

On a brighter note, I found this great idea for a beach wedding- or someone who just wants to feel like they are at the beach. This is such a cute idea and it looks clean, elegant and unique! Hope you all like it!

I CAN'T WALK ON WATER!

Today I have to say something that I wish I didn't have to say! I recently did a wedding that had many problems, none of which were in my control to fix! Things happened due to personalities, the bride's lack of maturity and unrealistic expectations and a general lack of discipline in those in the wedding party. Most of the drama happened the day before the wedding. The wedding itself was very nice. The ceremony was lovely, the caterer did a great job, the party was a success. But, there was nothing that made this girl happy. She found fault with everything! And, she treated all of us very rudely- shouting orders and having temper tantrums at every turn. Girls! Every wedding has something that isn't perfect! And, as a planner, I can't perform miracles! I am passionate, I work very hard and I will do everything in my power to make sure your day is the best it can be! I have countless "thank you's" from brides, their mothers and their guests to prove it. I have never had an unhappy bride, a bride that berated me, or a sense of dread- until now! Though I know it wasn't me, it is very disconcerting to have someone so negative interfere with my strong sense of pride in what I do. I hope that by writing this I will make you think about the fact that, even with the help of a planner, your attitude and your expectations have to be tempered with common sense and respect. It is a huge event in your life, but the whole point of the day is that you are beginning a new life with someone- forever! Shouldn't that be your focus?

AN APPLE A DAY!

These are from a spring wedding, but can be translated for Fall or, change the fruit and use a pear or an orange. What a great idea for a different kind of centerpiece than to use fresh, vibrant fruit in a large cylinder with beautiful blooms on top! I love this look- ti is so different!

A WORD ABOUT PLANNERS!

Ok girls! This is the bottom line about planners. First of all, a recent bride does not a planner make!! It isn't glamorous, it isn't always fun and it is VERY hard work that requires a myriad of skills and a unique personality. Second, don't hire someone "by the hour"! If I charged by the hour, I would be worth millions! No one can calculate the time they spend on your wedding in hours and if they do they are charging you so much more than someone who quotes a fee and sticks to it! Third, if you hire someone for the day of your wedding and they "show up" on the day of your wedding with no prior input or knowledge- you have been cheated! When you hire me for the day of your wedding, I am available to you from the time you sign the contract and I WILL be involved for anything you need. Not even the most seasoned planner can just attend your wedding and do a good job. Finally, every bride needs someone not involved in the wedding to oversee her special day. You are the bride, your maids have a job and your mother is the hostess. Oh, and Aunt Sally can't pick up the slack in a pinch! Hire a planner! It isn't that much more in the scheme of things, and you will be so glad to have that pair of able hands after all the time, money and planning you have done!! Ladies! There are all kinds of people out there claiming to be wedding planners, from decorators, to caterers, to the person assigned to your wedding at your reception site. When you hire someone, make sure they are going to be with YOU all day. Make sure you like them and connect with them in the beginning. And, don't sell yourself short! Even if you are having a small wedding or a lower budget wedding- it is YOUR wedding!! It should be perfect and the happiest memory of your life! I promise, I will make it so! Give me the chance!

WHAT A DOLL!!

Ok girls! If you want THE MOST adorable and capable make up artist for your wedding and one of the best photographers all in the same package, call Darah at www.dollfacestudio.com!! I am so happy to be doing her wedding in July! She and her partner are the best and you won't find a better deal anywhere!! Check out their website and then call!!! You will be so glad you did!

A GREAT INDIAN WEDDING!

I did an Indian wedding this weekend and had such a good time! What an education!! I learned about the Hindu ceremony, got my mendhi on my hand and spent the day with the most wonderful family and the sweetest bride! I loved this wedding and I am ready to do the next one!