LE MERIDIEN: PERFECTLY SUITED FOR NOW- AND LATER

 Right in the center of Philadelphia, with a view of City Hall, in a historic building, is Le Meridien Hotel.  With beautifully appointed guest rooms, a gorgeous library for an intimate ceremony and several options to party the night away, your wedding will be perfect in every way.  And, right now, planning an intimate occasion for the most dear to you or an elopement for just you two, there is no better time to plan your wedding at Le Meridien.

Last week, I visited Lauren Pasquini and we chatted about how the hotel has pivoted to accommodate the things that have changed in this last year. And, how dedicated they are to making sure that with smaller weddings AND smaller budgets, couples can still have a magical wedding.  Here are some of the things that Le Meridien is doing for couples right now:

Book your wedding in 2021 FOR 2021 and receive: 

 ** Complimentary ceremony ( $1000 value)

** Complimentary Tier 2 or 3 entree at a Tier 1 price ($20 per person value)

** Complimentary 1 Hour After Party food display ($20 per person value)

Book your wedding in 2021 FOR 2022 and beyond with under 50 guests and receive ONE of the above options.

Book your wedding in 2021 FOR 2022 or beyond with over 50 guests and choose two of the above options.

The photos here are from one of my weddings at Le Meridien.  And, I must say, it was perfection- all day!  Lauren and her team will make sure that nothing is left to chance and that every moment is unforgettable.  Even in these strange days, weddings should always be special and ALWAYS be memorable.  Le Meridien will see to that. So, give Lauren a call to book your special day.  And, let me know how I can help!  Because every wedding, big or small, needs a planner to keep you sane and stress free.

Stay tuned for more info about a special evening coming soon at Le Meridien in April.  Details to come.

Lauren Pasquini- 215-422-8221

STRAIGHT TALK

Usually, my posts are full of pretty pictures and great advice.  But, today, I just want to talk to you.  First, I chose this little quote because it says all you need to know about me.  I have a very kind heart, a fierce and creative mind that is always thinking, and, probably, the bravest spirit you will ever find.  What more could any bride want in a planner?!

For 16+ years I have given my heart to this business.  Every bride has been like my own daughter getting married.  I have done things that I won't even share here, to ensure that I didn't miss a meeting, forget a cherished photo, tell a bride NO or not pick up the phone late at night for a meltdown.  I have been there for whatever needed to be done, whoever needed my attention and wherever I needed to be.  I am not perfect.   Certain things are beyond my control and you can't please everyone.   But, I can honestly say that in all this time, 99% of my brides have been glad they hired me.  I LOVE this business.  I LOVE my clients.  

Lets face it, there are hundreds of planners out there. So, why would you choose me?  There are more public planners, there are planners that pay to get referred, there are planners that do more advertising, have more glamorous websites.  But, how many of them have that FIERCE MIND?  When I check my analytics on here and on my Pinterest boards- I am always amazed at how many hits I get on my inspirations, my vision boards, my expert advice.  My biggest percentage of engagement doesn't come from my own city, but from New York and Chicago and Washington D.C.  I have done weddings in all of those cities.  But, the numbers are far greater than those weddings I have done. When I get reaction from my Instagram page, its from people like Katie Couric and Lori Allen (SYTTD Atlanta)and photographers from all over.  I have a fierce mind!  I have a keen eye and a true artistic vision.  I see all kinds of weddings, I get inspired from a blob of paint, a peacock feather, a night sky or a classic love story.  And, I can see your vision- all you need to do is show me a photo, a color, tell me a story.  

My HEART is so kind it gets me into trouble.  I have taken on those clients in that 1%.  I have done my job and planned their weddings.  And, kicked myself afterwards.  I have been the mom that the bride doesn't have, saved more that one wedding from absolute disaster, listened to couples from different cultures try and navigate family differences, fought for more than one gown to be fixed to the bride's specifications, gone straight to the designer to get bridesmaids dresses remade because they were ordered wrong and came in late.  I have been there for every bride I have helped- for whatever they need.  Heck, I have even slashed my fees for a truly needy bride who needed the help.  I have set up weddings for DIY brides so they didn't have to set them up themselves- even when I wasn't the planner, only the venue supervisor.  I don't say NO.  That doesn't mean I am looking to give myself away.  This is my business and I have bills to pay too.  But, I care about people.  I care about you!

BRAVE SPIRIT!  No one is more brave than I!   Brave to stand strong in a business that is changing.  Brave to keep going even when, personally, life was very hard.  Brave to be sitting here writing to all of you, opening up to you like friends.  Because, we are friends.  If you have come her to read this, you are my friend.  And, likewise, I will be yours.  Bravery is about not being afraid of the unknown.  And, each wedding I do is unknown when YOU say yes to me.  I am brave and I am capable and I am so excited to help you plan the biggest and best day of your life.  

I chose angels for my logo because that is what I want to be to you.  Angels watch over us.  Angels keep us safe.  Angels are sweet, kind and good.  I want to be your wedding angel.  Because I have a kind heart, a fierce mind and a brave spirit.  And, because every bride needs to have someone totally in their corner while planning a wedding.   I am the Angel of Hearts!  
Tell me what I can do for you

BRIDAL MARKET

Its almost October and that means its time for bridal market.  What's trending for 2020, you ask?  Taking a queue from Meghan Markle, the clean, minimalist long sleeve is definitely at the top of the list.  And, for the bride who doesn't want the traditional gown- jumpsuits, pants and a blouse and satin cargo pants will be donning the runways.  Everything is lighter, from crinolines to corsets to embroidery, as brides don't want to be weighted by their bridal attire.  Feathers, whimsical bustles, headbands instead of veils and the decline of the "naked dress" giving way to a more covered up look, without being too modest are all en vouge.  Other trends include big, sheer sleeves, two piece dresses and the little white dress for your party.  With all these choices, it will be easy for every bride to find her style.  
Now that you know what to shop for, lets talk about where to shop in the Philadelphia area for some of the top designers.  I have chosen four salons, two on the Main Line and two in Center City. Plus I am going to tell you about a concept store in the city that may be right up your alley. Lets start with shopping on the Main Line of Philadelphia, for the more traditional, upscale bride.  There are other shops, I have been to them all with my clients over the years.  However, for the ultimate shopping experience and the most choices, these two fit the bill.

Elizabeth Johns is in Ardmore, in the Shops at Suburban Square.  When you walk into the bright and beautiful surroundings of this salon, you will be instantly greeted for your appointment.  The selection here includes dresses for the bride, bridesmaids, moms and flower girls.  Some of the top designers are featured here.  For the bride, I have chosen six designers, but there are more.  These designers are timeless, enduring and always beautiful. From top left and clockwise- Reem Acra, Inbal Dror, Anne Barge, Amsale, Mira Zwillinger and Carolina Herrara.  

Bridesmaids selections include, Elizabeth Johns exclusives, Dessy and Amsale.  The newest trends and a rainbow of colors will make shopping for your maids a piece of cake.  Evening attire, perfect for the moms includes Frascara, John Paul Ataker,Wayne Clark Janique and Teresa Ripoli.  I have seen, first hand how attentive they are and how beautiful and plentiful their selection is.  so, make your appointment today.
Elizabeth Johns
46 St James Place
Ardmore, Pa 19003
610-649-8100 
  
                                                                                  Travel down Lancaster Avenue into Chester County and you will find Van Cleve Wedding Pavilion.  Think PINK when you walk into this salon.  Its a girly dream come true.  From the pink paint, to the crystal chandeliers to the flower wall, not to mention all the gorgeous dresses.  The bridal team here is top notch and very savvy.  And, Deborah, the owner is a fixture on the Main Line.  Some of the bridal designers featured here, From top left clockwise-  are Hayley Paige, Ysa Makino, Sareh Nouri, Pronovias, Stephen Yearick and Romona Keveza.  Bridesmaids include Hayley Paige, Watters and Jenny Yoo.  And, for those special moms selections include Rina di Montella, Rene Ruiz and Alex Teih.  While you are here, you can also shop for veils, jewelry and the perfect dress for the littlest of your wedding party.  I just know this will be a wonderful bridal experience for you.  So, make your appointment soon.  
Wedding Pavilion
1604 E. Lancaster Avenue
Paoli, Pa 19301
610-647-5055


If you are a city girl, these next two salons are perfect!  The Philadelphia Bridal Company is a tiny boutique in Center City.  If you are interested in Tara Keely or Atelier Pronovias, this is the place for you.  Ashley keeps things very limited, so that she can provide the best service to a specific bride. You are modern, think outside the box and have a flair for fashion.  There are no traditional gowns here.  You must have at least a $2000 budget to make an appointment.  Once there, you will have a very personal experience.  You can even feel free to bring some white wine or champagne to celebrate!  Ashley and her team are so much fun.  It will be like buying your gown in your own living room.   This salon is by appointment only. So, make yours today.                                                        

Philadelphia Bridal Company
1218 Spruce Street
Philadelphia, Pa 19107
267-239-5443

The Wedding Factor is in the funky, fun part of the city.  Located on south Street in Head House Square, this upscale salon caters to the modern bride.  If you are looking for couture bridal, this is the place.  Designers here include Elizabeth Fillmore, Yolancris, Justin Alexander, and the exclusive carrier of Berta Bridal.  They also carry Stella York and Stella York Plus Size.  Just look at these gowns!  On the cutting edge of bridal.  Make your appointment here.

The Wedding Factor
125 South Street
Philadelphia, Pa 19147
267-861-0409

I told you at the beginning of this that I was going to tell you about another concept salon.  Lovely Bride is a new idea in bridal.  For the bride who has vision, or at least an idea of what she wants, this salon is perfect.  The concept for this idea started with the idea that bridal shopping could be "cool".  This "chain" of salons across the country has a unique process for selecting your gown.  Go on the web site and select the type of dresses you like and want to try on.  Add them to your wishlist.  Then, make an appointment to go try on.  The staff will be ready for you with your choices and others that may fit your style.  How cool is that!  There is nothing stuffy or judgmental here.  Just fun and a relaxed atmosphere.  The designers- Watters, Jenny Yoo and more from BHLDN.  I love this idea.   You will love the experience.  
Lovely Bride
237 Market Street
Philadelphia, Pa 19106
215-627-1800


Now, before I go, here are some general tips for wedding gown shopping.  

1. Make and appointment.  Most salons require it and you will get much more personal service.

2. Wear the proper undergarments.  Please wear panties and not a thong.   If you have a strapless bra- great.  And, no flashy colors or crazy prints.

3. Do your hair and make up.  You want to get a picture of what you will look like and going shopping looking a mess won't help.

4. DO NOT take a lot of people.  Most salons are not equipped for large groups and too many opinions are confusing.  Most salons do not allow anyone to pull gowns without the help of a salesperson.  So, the bigger the group, the harder it is for the staff to manage the crowd.

5. Remember whose wedding this is!!!  Everyone has a style- but, this is YOUR DAY.  Don't listen to anyone who says they don't like the dress.  If you feel like a bride- ITS YOUR DAY!!!  

Finally, don't buy a wedding on line.  Gowns that are advertised on line from anonymous sites for crazy low prices are not for real.  You will be sorry.  Go to a reputable salon where you can see the dress and have all the services of a salon experience.  HAPPY SHOPPING!! 

DESTINATION NEW ORLEANS

Feeling a little French today?  I hope so, because we are off to New Orleans.  And, I can't wait to show you all the wonderful places for a wedding you will find here.  This whole thing has become really hard.  There is so much out there in every city and its hard to just choose a few.  Every day is an adventure.  Every venue is a treasure.  Get ready, we are off to the south and our first pick of the day.  Ready?

Race and Religious is THE COOLEST venue!!  I should have saved this for last, but wait until you see it!  Dating back to the 1830's, this riverfront Garden District beauty has a vibe you won't be able to resist.  A Creole cottage, a 3 story row house and a "slave quarter" have been restored for spectacular events.  There are balconies, working fireplaces and gas lamps to add to the ambiance.  I must tell you, this restoration is raw and loaded with original components of the property.  It has been lovingly restored.  Oh, and the name- its on the corner of Race St and Religious St.  with the most luxurious amenities and a rich history, Race and Religious has to be on your short list!


Right in the heart of the French Quarter is the Pharmacy Museum.   The 1st licensed apothecary in the USA, this 1816 building holds the secret to a magical and romantic wedding.  This is an intimate space, with capacity for 70 guests for a seated dinner or 150 for a cocktail reception. And, your guests can enjoy some of the exhibits during your event.  Step back in time and enjoy this little piece of heaven at the Pharmacy Museum.

Marigny Opera House, an 1847 church, is another historic and interesting venue.  This impressive building was destroyed by fire, resurrected, plagued with Yellow Fever- until it was magically "cured" by prayers to St Roch.  After, it was the home of the Benedictine nuns and turned into a parochial school.  Closed and de-consecrated in 1999, it was turned into the opera house in 2011.  Now, you can hold your ceremony on the altar and then dance the night away.

Step out of the box and into the House of Blues.  Located in the French Quarter and totally unexpected as a wedding venue, House of Blues could be the event of the season for you and your guests.  With its funky, music hall interior and the surrounding local color of the French Quarter, who would even imagine that your wedding could be so awesome.  

Latrobe's on Royal, is an 1822 bank, built by the architect who also designed the Porticos or the White House, the US Capital and the waterworks system that helped to rid the south of Yellow Fever.  Much of the original structure and interior adds to the charm and ambiance of this iconic venue.  Some elements, such as the bank vault, the Whisper Dome and the original stone work will make your guests feel like they have stepped back into another time.  You can choose a southern cocktail party, a trendy soiree' or an elegant dinner here.  The attention to detail and the expert service will make it easy to to plan your wedding and enjoy the day.

Coffee lovers- there's a venue for you here too.  Chicory is an 1852 coffee warehouse that has become one of the premier venues in New Orleans.  With its old world charm and its modern amenities, you can have a memorable wedding in this charming location.  Coffee was a staple of life at the time this building was erected and chicory was added to stretch the supply.  The building still has the original beams, as well as gas lanterns, tin ceilings and exposed brick.  With several event spaces available, including a rooftop deck, the venue can accommodate up to 400 guests.  It's charming, it's quaint and it's all New Orleans.  

Today was fun.  So much history.  And, tomorrow on to Atlanta for more historic venues and maybe a plantation.  

WEATHER...OR NOT

One of the hardest things about planning a wedding is WEATHER!   Nobody can predict the weather a year away.  What you can do is have a PLAN B and hope for the best possible outcome.  Today, with a hurricane brewing in the Atlantic, I decided to help you plan for the unexpected cloud burst, the snowstorm or an impending rainy day.  

Outdoor weddings in late summer or early fall are beautiful.  However, it is also hurricane season.  If the venue has a built in plan B that's wonderful.  If they don't, you need to have one.  Rent a tent!  Not only will it keep the raindrops from ruining your day, but it will keep the sun from beating down on your guests if it is hot.  Tents can be beautiful.  There are so many styles to choose from and they even have chandeliers.  And, make sure you get a floor put in.  Nobody wants to be tramping around on damp ground in heels.  This wedding was at a private home.  The patio was perfect for cocktail hour.   But, it had rained quite a bit the week before and there was the threat of rain that day.  Beyond this lovely patio was a tent for dinner.  We didn't need to do it, but we could have put an awning from here to the tent entrance, in the event of rain.  As you can see, the rain held off and the day was overcast, but perfect.  One piece of advice- if it rains, have an umbrella and just dance in it!  You may be surprised to find that one of your favorite photos turns out to be a rainy one.

Now, lets talk about your winter wonderland wedding!  This one is a little trickier.  Snow can create some real stress when planning a wedding in the winter months.  What if it snows the night before?  What if there is a blizzard?  What if its icy?  Here are a few tips to keep you sane while you watch the weather forecast.  

Make sure that you arrange for your flowers.  If there  is bad snow on your wedding day, will the florist deliver your flowers or will you have to pick them up?  Arrange for transportation that can safely get you and your bridal party to your venue.  Or, perhaps plan your wedding at an inn, a hotel or some other venue that has lodging for you and your guests that doesn't require driving.  City weddings in the winter can be a great alternative.  Everything is with in a short walk.  Or, like this beautiful couple of mine, plan for a comfy, country inn that has it all right there.  Make sure the venue has cleared all walking paths and parking areas.  And, most of all, relax!  It will all turn out.  What could be better than a photo like this one to remember the adventure of your snow day vows!

Remember this- its your wedding day!  And, there is a special kind of magic in a wedding with weather.  Rain is good luck.  And, snow brings that fairy like quality to your winter dream.  So, don't worry about the weather.  It will all work out.  And, you will have that perfect day- and maybe some special photos to remember the magic.  Happy Planning!